Abby and Brittany Hensel have lived a life that continues to inspire millions around the world. The sisters, who became household names after appearing on The Oprah Winfrey Show in 1996 and later starring in their own TLC reality series Abby & Brittany, have always defied expectations. Now, they’re back in the spotlight following news that Abby quietly married Josh Bowling, a nurse and U.S. Army veteran, in 2021. The story of these extraordinary sisters, now 34 years old, is one of strength, unity, and an unwavering bond that has captured hearts for decades.

Born on March 7, 1990, in Minnesota to parents Patty and Mike Hensel, Abby and Brittany entered the world as dicephalic parapagus conjoined twins — meaning they share one body but have separate heads and upper torsos. Doctors initially believed they wouldn’t survive long after birth, but the twins defied every prediction. They each have their own heart, lungs, stomach, and kidney, though they share certain organs like the bladder, reproductive system, and colon. Their bodies even maintain separate temperatures, something Abby once humorously described on their TLC show: “I get super hot way faster, and there’s a red line right down the middle of our body—my side’s sweating, and she’s perfectly fine.”
From an early age, it was clear that Abby and Brittany’s coordination was extraordinary. Each controls one side of their shared body—Abby the right and Brittany the left—but together, they’ve learned to walk, run, swim, and even play sports like basketball and softball. When they turned sixteen, both girls took their driver’s tests—individually. Abby handled the pedals and gear shift, while Brittany controlled the turn signals and lights. “We both passed—obviously,” they joked on their TLC series.
Their parents chose not to separate them as babies, even though surgery was theoretically possible later in life. Patty Hensel once explained in a 2007 documentary, Extraordinary People: The Twins Who Share a Body, that the family wanted the girls to live a full, normal life together. Abby and Brittany agreed, saying, “We never wish we were separated. We wouldn’t get to do the things we can do together—play softball, meet people, and run.”
Despite their unique situation, Abby and Brittany have always insisted on being recognized as two individuals with distinct personalities and interests. Abby enjoys math and science, while Brittany prefers reading and writing. They make decisions collaboratively, often by flipping a coin or bargaining—“If you do this, I’ll do that.” Over the years, they’ve developed an intuitive understanding of each other, often finishing one another’s sentences or anticipating what the other is about to say.
Their close-knit family has been central to their journey. Abby and Brittany grew up alongside two younger siblings, Morgan and Cody, and were always encouraged to pursue independence. After graduating from college, they began teaching fifth grade at an elementary school in Minnesota. While they share one body, their school recognized them as two separate employees, providing individual contracts and splitting their salary evenly. Abby teaches math and science, and Brittany focuses on language arts and reading.
The twins have also faced the challenges of public attention with remarkable grace. They understand people’s curiosity but dislike being photographed without consent. “We absolutely hate when people take pictures of us,” Abby said in an interview years ago. “We’ll throw a fit and make them embarrassed.” Their doctor, Joy Westerdahl, once noted that while their case is medically fascinating, their family’s wish has always been for them to be treated like everyone else.
Though Abby and Brittany’s reality show lasted just one season in 2012, their impact continues to resonate. After years of privacy, news of Abby’s marriage to Josh Bowling brought the sisters back into headlines. Bowling, a devoted father to his daughter Isabella, has blended his family with the twins’, and together they’ve created a warm and supportive household. Abby and Brittany have long expressed their desire to one day become mothers—a dream that may now be closer than ever.
Over the years, the sisters have managed to balance their private lives with public fascination. They share one social media account, which remains private and rarely updated. Their lives are far from typical, yet Abby and Brittany continue to live with confidence and authenticity. They’ve turned what many might view as a limitation into a testament to human resilience and harmony.
Abby and Brittany Hensel’s story isn’t just about medical wonder—it’s about the power of unity, empathy, and individuality. Through every challenge and every triumph, they’ve shown that life’s greatest strength comes from acceptance—of oneself, of others, and of the extraordinary ways we are all connected.