Kevin, a 42-year-old single father, openly admits that his high standards in dating might leave him alone forever. Living in Fife, Scotland, Kevin is adamant about not lowering his expectations when it comes to love. He’s convinced that he can only fall for someone who meets all of his criteria, and he’s sworn never to compromise or settle for less.
As a TikToker known by the handle @boerboelblade2, Kevin shared with The Sun his thoughts on love and relationships. Unlike most people who are content with finding a compatible partner, Kevin’s standards are notably higher. For him, appearance is everything. He candidly states, “I’m not into ugly women,” though he acknowledges, “I’m not saying I’m Brad Pitt, but I know I can attract reasonably good-looking women.”
Kevin’s ideal woman is long-haired and “busty,” but he has a strong dislike for ponytails. He’s aware that his specific preferences make finding the right person more challenging. He admits, “It does make it harder to find someone if you’re only going for top-tier looks. It means you’ll have to work a lot harder, and plenty of other men will likely be competing for the same woman. But I’m just not willing to settle for second best. I understand I could be alone for a long time.”
Despite these challenges, Kevin is currently in a committed relationship in 2023, but his dating journey hasn’t been smooth. Before this, he was in an on-and-off relationship for about three years. He also mentioned that a relationship he started with someone he met on TikTok at the end of 2022 ended after just one month.
Kevin’s difficulties with dating are further complicated by his lifestyle choices. Since he hasn’t had a drink in years, meeting women through traditional avenues like bars or pubs isn’t an option. He’s also unimpressed with dating apps, which he finds frustrating. According to Kevin, many potential matches don’t respond to his messages, and the ones who do often aren’t as attractive as he’d like.
Reflecting on his past experiences, Kevin says, “I’ve lowered my standards before, and I never enjoyed it. I won’t be doing it again.” He’s content with his decision, even if it means staying single for the foreseeable future. Kevin does hope to find the ideal partner eventually, but he explains, “People always ask me why I’m single. I could have a girlfriend. I’m decent-looking, I make decent money. But lots of men are single because they choose to be and refuse to settle. It’s a lifestyle choice.”
